More and more awakening people keep asking, what they should do when their probable Twin Flame is in a relationship with someone else. If you’re experiencing this too, our video is for you!
It’s easy to get into negative emotions and nasty vibrations, such as jealousy, especially when we don’t get what we want and think it’s unfair. But don’t succumb to the human ego! It may simply not be the right time for you to be together since you’re not matching vibrations with your Twin Flame at the moment. You are learning your own lessons right now, and they are impossible to learn without loving yourself and unconditional love for others. After all, when we send out love vibrations, we get them back.
For now, focus on the new YOU living a happy life with the loved and getting everything the way you want.
The Twin Flame Theme is playing itself out quite nicely on Earth.
Do you feel like you have a divine counterpart out there, somewhere…and does that yearning dominate your waking hours?
“Where is she?”
“When will he find me?”
“Why is it taking so long?”
Well, my beautiful friend, you are not alone. And you are not going crazy. Although our world would have you think so for every moment that you spend pining for someone you’ve perhaps never met, hoping that two lost souls will find each other like needles in a haystack. This is one of the deepest longings a human can have, and it’s happening to millions of us.
Perhaps you delve into YouTube for clues and predictions about when your partner will arrive. “When will it happen? Will our worlds align at the next solstice?” For only when he or she arrives, can you start living your life, right?
It doesn’t work that way.
Now those videos on YouTube are from well-meaning people. They are reading the energy of the Collective and they want to give you hope. Perhaps it is the next solstice, or maybe the New Year will bring this beautiful lover into your world. Nevertheless, your Twin Flame won’t arrive until you make some changes on the inside.
Before you click away from the page because you’ve heard this before, consider how well those prediction videos have been working. Have they brought you clues as to where he/she is? Chances are that they haven’t brought you to your partner. Because the perfect partner you’ve been yearning for is already there with you, right now. It’s you.
As long as you continue to look out there, you will see the lack of something you feel will complete you. You will count how many months–or years–you’ve been waiting, and you’ll doubt the laws of attraction that govern our world. But those same laws of attraction never falter. So that hopeless feeling you’re sending out is coming right back to you as more hopelessness. And right back to Twin Flame predictions you’ll go, because you are looking for more hope to fill that gap.
If this is you, then I would invite you to read the message below. It was created to plant a seed in you. This seed will sprout into an internal process of belief review. You may cry. You may find anger. And through this review, you will greatly increase your chances of encountering your Twin Flame, if that is truly your desire.
A trigger message for those still awaiting the arrival of their Twin Flame:
How do you feel about giving pleasure to others with your body?
Do you enjoy it?
Have you ever given pleasure to your partner and discounted your own?
End of message.
Why are the questions above pertinent to finding your lost lover? I’ll lay out the mechanics for you.
For the last 13,000 years, Earth has been playing in the game of high polarity. You can call it Dark vs Light, or Good vs Evil. Patriarchy has ruled, in which the thrusting force (male, negative, external) is stronger than the allowing force (female, positive, internal).
We pass through such cycles every 13,000 years; and in 2012, we began the new cycle of balancing feminine energy. You may have heard it called the Era of the Goddess. It’s an age of BEING rather than DOING. Of accepting, of unifying, of allowing in. Of balancing that outward thrust with inner awareness.
Sounds serene, doesn’t it?
Well in order to get there, for both the individual as well as the Collective, we must swing in the other direction by behaving differently than we did for the last 13,000 years.
There is no doubt in my mind that you, or someone you know, has been abused in their past. Abuse is one example of this imbalance. It was played out on any number of levels:
Emotional (bullying, institutions such as the military),
Physical (drunk beatings by a parent, sexual abuse)
Spiritual (the church and its hypocritical abhorrence for pleasures of the body)
Mental (teachers telling you you’re not good enough)
In all of the examples above, there was one entity asserting power over another. The Lion and the Lamb, if you like to read ancient texts.
Since we’re all connected, we carry around the memories of all of these instances–from every life that’s ever been lived in an abusive situation–inside our cells.
These cellular memories affect our view of life if accessed consistently. Plus, if in this lifetime you’ve experienced any of the above, then you are accessing these memories even more. They compound into beliefs about yourself and your worth. And, especially if someone used your body without your permission in this lifetime, then you might carry some imbalance related to this theme.
Contemplate your feelings about the pleasure that YOU receive through intimate encounters.
Do you feel loved? Safe? Heard?
You may not derive any pleasure from intimacy, because previous experiences have been based on someone using you for their own pleasure. Such events need not be limited to the bedroom; a screaming drill sergeant can derive just as much pleasure at berating you as any creepy perpetrator.
If intense feelings arise about this, do whatever you can do to safely feel them, including counseling if you feel you need it.
This type of energy can be cleared out much more efficiently now that we are on the feminine side of the cycle. You have endless support, more unity, and more understanding by fellow souls that have experienced similar circumstances.
By reviewing how (or if) you allow yourself pleasure, you are not only healing your own energetic imbalance, but you’re also healing the Collective as well.
So does this mean I won’t meet my Twin Flame until I’m healed?
Not necessarily. Let’s go back to mechanics to explain.
The Law of Attraction dictates that “like attracts like,” and no doubt you are looking for the best version of a partner you can possibly imagine. He or she will embody all of the values you deem important in a lover, and you would naturally want for yourself someone who has healed themself of major imbalances. I don’t know a single person that envisions an ideal lover that’s batshit crazy!
Such a person is of a particular frequency. And in order to experience that frequency, you need to match it.
Do you think that you will attract a person with all of those values if you aren’t living them yourself?
Now no one will be perfect while in a human body. So no need to expect it from yourself, or from anyone else you encounter. You do want healthy, though, and that health starts with you, the attracting force in this whole scenario.
By reviewing your beliefs about your power over your own body, you take care of yourself. You’ll then focus on allowing in another person who shares your values, who wants the same things that you do; and you’ll be allowing them in on your terms, not merely theirs.
This is you, regaining your power, and serving humanity at the same time. When you decide to let your Twin Flame in, rather than giving them all the power to come to you…then you’ll draw that person to your side. It’s Law.
The Twin Flame Experiment is in full swing, and unions are occurring around the world. Still waiting for yours? Doubting you have one? Both are good questions right about now. It’s time to get internal.
I would love to give you news like all of those YouTube channels that display Hindu gods and goddesses, enrobed in jewel colors, intertwined in an eternal kiss of everlasting love. I would love to be another one of those people that gives you readings that your Flame is just around the corner, and when you meet, then everything in life will be perfect. But that’s not my gift.
My particular gift is to trigger you into remembrance of what life is really all about.
And sometimes that means providing you with an internal perspective of what concepts like the Twin Flame experiment really encompass.
The Twin Flame experiment is part of a collective soul contract, in which 5th dimensional beings have the opportunity to ramp up the Earth’s frequency by incarnating into two (whole) parts at the same time: one masculine, and one feminine. They live two separate lives, going through their individual stuff, learning and remembering such lessons as heartbreak, security, abandonment, lovability and unconditional love.
The purpose of this division is to play out the illusion of polarity, from both the male/female aspect, as well as the separation/integration aspect, of a soul’s existence on the physical plane. Twins, as they are called, will come into union after a certain amount of inner work is done, making them better candidates for bonded relationships that foster growth for both parties…AND multiplying their energy for the benefit of humanity.
Once union–or integration–occurs, then that couple, as two complete souls combining their energy as one, emanates an exponential amount of light versus the two separate entities alone.
So 1+1 does not equal 2 in the case of those enrolled in the Twin Flame experiment.
In the case of Twin Flames, 1 + 1 = 10
Think about what this would do for modern-day Earth, where we are playing out the Dark vs Light scenario in full force right now. You don’t have to look far to see that those of negative polarity are having their final temper tantrum, rising up in any way they can in a final fury before the Light succeeds in being the prevailing polarity for Earth’s inhabitants.
When two super-charged twins unite, that’s all the more powerful light to shine on the collective. And this is why the Twin Flame experiment is coming to fruition in these next years.
So are you part of this experiment? Do you feel like there is someone out there that mirrors you? Perhaps you only experience the connection on the astral plane, through voices in your head, a feeling of deep love for someone you don’t even know, or the feeling of not being alone.
If you feel like you have a Twin, and you’re frustrated that he or she is not in your physical plane, then read on.
We’ll put aside the entwined-lover scenario for a second, and go internal, because ALL of life is really just internal anyway.
That part of you that is in 5D is integrated to the point of not needing physicality. Incarnation is a choice, and many of our 5D selves chose physicality at this time and place as a service to his fellow souls.
In the case of twins, that 5D part of you wanted to both assist the collective and also grow on a personal level, through living life on the same timeline from different perspectives. So it splits itself up into a 4D portion (the non-physical part that you feel, sense or hear in your head) and a 3D portion (the physical body.)
So the 5D YOU divided itself into four portions, each with all of the powers of the whole:
Divine Feminine in 4D (non-physical) Divine Feminine in 3D (physical)
Divine Masculine in 4D (non-physical) Divine Masculine in 3D (physical)
And then you forgot! And you’re set free to live lives, from FOUR different perspectives. And the name of the game is to integrate ALL of those perspectives into one, by remembering your power as the creator of the whole experiment in the first place.
When you do this, it’s a win-win situation: for both the collective, and on a personal level.
So first, you may encounter your twin in your dreams or in meditation (non-physical); and you two will build up a relationship between your non-physical selves. This is your integration on the non-physical level. 4D + 4D.
And this is where lots of us get stuck. We yearn for the 3D + 3D part of the equation. We want the integration on the 3D level so much more—to experience the sensation of touching, kissing, feeling of security, and….sex. And we wonder where that damn twin is. And we start looking all around us, second-guessing the perfection of the Divine Design, trying to push things along.
We question the Universe…which turns to begging, and will eventually transform into self doubt:
“Is she with someone else?”
“What if he isn’t attracted to me? Am I too fat?”
“Where do I have to go to meet her?”
That initiates a wild ride along the rapids of self deprecation, and it’s easy to be pulled along with the negative current. Perhaps it’s time to remember who is creating your show in the first place.
Your twin is merely another aspect of yourself. When you make that merge in 4D, then it’s time to go inward and ask yourself what work needs to be done on the YOU that will make up your portion of the relationship.
Because it isn’t about whether your twin will find you attractive. It’s whether YOU find yourself attractive.
It isn’t about if your twin is in the right place at the right time. It’s about YOU being in a place of joy that will bring that twin, also in a place of joy, to you.
In other words, you must BE the person you want your twin to be. Because you’re really only integrating your separate selves together anyway. You must be in that vibration to attract it to you. Every time. No exceptions.
Are you in that vibration?
Or are you waiting for the perfect partner to show up when you’re not even sure who YOU are yet?
Again, it all comes down to frequency, and that is an internal job, every time. If you feel that you have a counterpart out there that is the “yin” to your “yang,” or the “yang” to your “yin,” then that person will show up when you’re truly yourself. All the time. Good and bad. Cranky and bubbly. Tired and energized. Mean and nice.
It’s not about being perfect. It’s about being YOU, with all of your quirky traits, and your idiosyncrasies, and your recognition of areas in which you could grow. It’s about acceptance of who you are, right now. And any twin that’s worthy of your time is doing the same thing in his or her life right now too.
That person exists, out there, in the physical, yet just out of sight. As within, so without.
Look inside to see what’s showing up for you outside…and you will remember the Meaning of Life.
If you feel like you have a mirror of yourself out there, and you’ve begun to feel communication on the spiritual level, then your time is most likely near to meet in the physical.
Ever feel like you KNOW your twinflame is out there? That He/she who will seem to be so much like you that you can barely imagine how happy you’d be if you joined with this person? Someone who understands you, accepts you for who you are, and who wants to grow alongside of you as you share your individual paths?
In essence: WHOLE meets WHOLE. This is a twinflame.
If you are feeling this pull, this attraction, then don’t dismiss it. Since you are creating your own world, you are sending yourself a very strong indication that you are about to join together. Remember that the Universe delivers in many ways, so try to avoid having strict expectations about how, when or where you will meet.
Yes, you are creating this person, just as he/she is creating you; both of you are undergoing changes in order to be the person you’d want to meet.
The key to understanding your part in this reality is that, although you are the creator of your reality, you gave other souls the ability to play parts in your simulation; and you gave them free will to develop their own path, so that you could enjoy some surprises. It would be pretty damned boring if you already knew every detail of when and how you’d meet your twinflame.
So do you just sit around and wait? Yeah, don’t. You wanted this anticipation, this journey. So enjoy that excitement, knowing that it’s coming. Keep yourself distracted with joyful things until that time comes. And when you’re focusing on something else…that’s when it happens.
These unions are part of what is called the Twin Flame Experiment, which is a group of soul agreements coming to fruition in this space/time to fulfill contracts put in place prior to incarnation.
One of the reasons behind the Twin Flame Experiment is to gauge the magnitude of influence of two already-powerfulsouls when united, and how the union serves humanity as Earth ascends.
As I’ve said before, when Lightworkers unite in the physical (oh and wait until you have sex!!!!!) the positive power isn’t 1+1=2…
This is what you’re in for, dear Lightworkers, you who have worked so hard to better yourselves; you who have waited for the One that will bring out your best qualities, will grow with you, and who shares similar beliefs about your reality.
These unions will occur in waves, since that’s a ton of power bombarding the world all at once. You know how strong the attraction is at the beginning of a relationship. You can barely keep your hands off each other!
So these unions will be spread out throughout the summer, again in October, and again early next year. It’s necessary to temper the amount of energy bombarding Earth at any one time lest nervous systems get fried. Yeah, it’s that much energy that our bodies need to learn to adapt to it. Exciting stuff.
I hope each of you find love, devotion and respect from whomever makes your heart sing. How delicious.