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May 2019

how to not expect the worst
Awakening Rants, Featured, Life on Earth,

How to Stop Expecting The Worst

A new situation has just arisen for you, and you are worried about the outcome.  Do you immediately assume that the worst will happen?

If so, you are not alone. In our modern Western society, survival fears run rampant. It would be a normal response to fear an unknown outcome since you are programmed—through advertisements, news and entertainment—that your very life might end if you are not vigilant of all inherent dangers.

But if you look back in your life, I can say with 100% accuracy, that there was a time that you expected the worst to happen, and it didn’t.  In fact, it’s likely that something unexpectedly awesome happened instead.

Let’s do a quick test of your beliefs about this concept:

 

Think about a time when you worried about something that never happened.

When you expected the worst. When you stayed up at night in an anxious fit because you weren’t sure if you would make it through.  When you truly worried if you would be out on the street living in a cardboard box under a bridge.

 

Now we’ll divide that scenario into two parts:  What you expected to happen, and what actually happened.

 

Bring yourself to the beginning of the situation, when everything was up in the air and things were chaotic.

What does that feel like to you? Pay attention to your senses and feel that scenario once again.

If you are new to recognizing your feelings, here are some examples:

  • Your mind gets very sharp, as if on alert. (Fear)
  • You hold your breath. (Ready to run)
  • Involuntary shaking (Dread)

Chances are, your body cramped up, your breath was choppy, and you felt like you wanted to bolt. These are indications of the beliefs you held about how things work out for you. While you were contemplating the outcome of your situation, your beliefs directed your reactions.  

That feeling indicates your belief at the time you registered that memory.

 

Now let’s look at the other part:

The worst didn’t happen. 

Now what does that feel like to you?

If you are new to recognizing your feelings, here are some examples:

  • Your muscles relax. (Relief)
  • Your gut feels like it’s been washed over with warm water.  (Calmness)
  • You take a deep breath. (Alignment with your Source)

If your feelings changed between “expecting the worst” and “the worst didn’t happen,” then that situation arose to give you the opportunity to change your beliefs.

 

Now whether or not you chose the new belief at that time and place, only you know.  If you didn’t, then you are not alone.

You can use that past scenario to change your beliefs NOW.

Next time a situation arises in which you automatically jump to expecting the worst, reach for the feeling you felt last time when the worst didn’t happen.

Grab for that better feeling, and then move your mind along on its way to a fun subject.  Each time you perform this switch, you solidify the new belief and decommission the old one.

Hopefully, you recognize that you have all of the building blocks for a positive life, right there for use.  It’s merely a matter of choosing a building block that supports your desires, rather than those that no longer support you.

Love to you.

 

Kimberly

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Awakening Rants, Life on Earth, Trigger Messages,

Experiencing Negative Events? You Are On a Treasure Hunt For Power

When unwanted things happen, we tend to blame the people or circumstances around us as the cause.

When I hear others detailing the negative experiences that are occurring for them, I might remind them of the fact that they are creating their own reality.

Now depending on how much internal exploration they’ve done about their beliefs, I could receive responses that range from “you’re crazy, why would I create that for myself?” to “it’s someone else’s fault that I’m in this position.”

I am going to tell you again.  And I am merely one of a multitude of resources telling you the same thing:

You are creating your entire reality.  All of it.  Positive and negative alike.

You will continue to have “negative” experiences until you realize that you are creating every single experience in your reality with the thoughts that you send out.

This is something worth repeating.  And it’s not because you are dense, or a slow learner, or stubborn.  It’s because you have inserted yourself into a reality in which we have all agreed to play under certain terms.  Those terms include a mass dream in which you forget that you are the creator.  We navigate our way through the system, blaming others and wishing for things that we don’t have, because we believe that the power is out there.  That we must do something, or be someone, or win someone’s favor to get what we want.

This belief that others have more power than you has been hammered into you since birth.  This was intentional, because if you are reading this right now, you wanted to engage in the treasure hunt for your personal power.  You wanted to forget who you are, and to gradually gain remembrance of your creative powers as you navigate through life.

So if your thoughts start on a negative trajectory, building momentum from one negative thought to another, state the fact to yourself that you remember.  You remember that you are creating it all.

This concept will bloom like a flower in your awareness the more you insert it there. And those situations in which you could blame another for something happening to you?  You’ll recognize that you brought the situation to form, in order to explore a belief that may need housecleaning.

With each belief that’s reviewed, you make the flip from blaming the external for your situation, to acceptance that you created it in the first place.  This allows you to shift your focus to creating things you would prefer.

And as you reclaim your power as the creator, your horizon widens to encourage your imagination to dream bigger.

You are creating it all.  So make it good.

 

 

Kimberly

author: Kimberly

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If you are interested in consciously rewriting your life, join in on The Allowing Project.  You’ll learn to rewrite your past in order to change your NOW.

 

 

Deathwalkers: modern day grim reapers
Life on Earth, Videos,

Deathwalkers: YouTube Livestream

Many people who die unexpectedly are separated from their bodies with confusion and pre-programmed fears about the afterlife. Deathwalkers have vowed to assist these souls over the bridge from physical life to the non-physical realm.

Kimberly (or “Grim Kim” as some call her) has been a deathwalker since Egyptian times.  Here, she will describe the commitment made, the process of walking a transitioning soul across the “rainbow bridge,” and how to tell if you may be a deathwalker yourself.

 

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Thursday, May 9, 2019

 

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